My morning coffee cup-pa and newspaper is the most important ritual everyday for me. Earlier times i had the luxury of sitting for a long time enjoying the morning sun, quiet streets and chirping birds along with my coffee and paper. But with kid hovering the entire house nowadays it is difficult but yet i try my best to grab this precious time for myself every morning.
Every time i read something about LOVE in paper i feel quite perplexed. Reason "PRETTY UNKNOWN" to myself. Is it because it is most hyped these days all thanks to F/B, TV channels, twitter or blogs. Or is it because everyone in the world tries to be judgmental about this one word.
Previously it was called, ' I am in love with someone' but nowadays it is called, ' I am in a relationship'. What is the major difference. Honestly there is none - it is just a matter of fact opinion.
There are so many issues that are more serious in the world - terrorism, global warming, health hazards, education, poverty... the list goes on and on. Here we are still stuck with age old thoughts of our kids in the family not marrying someone from the same caste. Situation nowadays is such that we get out of our houses every morning not knowing whether we will return back safe or not. Future is unknown to us.
At least looking at those things it is better let people live the way they want to. Marriages are failing everyday and people live with those failures as well. Pre-Set notions in society doesn't allow individual freedom.
Arranged or Love Relationship is a matter of chance that everyone takes. It is better that person who has decided to go for a relationship should take this step with someone whom they feel connected to. Otherwise living with someone and thinking of someone else is worse than adultery.
I am completely against the idea of behaving irresponsibly during teen years, turning a blind eye to studies etc.
But if two consulting adults who are matured, settled in life come up with the idea of being together it is fine. If same thing our younger one's wish to replicate then they need to be told the responsibility that comes along with it. I personally feel that we ourselves are at loggerheads with my mindset. Somewhere we know love relationships are not wrong but societal pressure or whatever the reasons are we bow down.
My final word is "Let's be more optimistic in our outlook towards things".
